šŸ¤”No Expert, NoĀ Problem

By no means am I an expert in anything.

I would consider myself an open-minded well-rounded holistic individual and prefer to be this way. I donā€™t know a lot about a little, I know a good amount about a lot.

Over the years Iā€™ve picked up on invaluable advice through the process of building a career as a student.

Here are 18 proven lessons Iā€™ve learned to allow you to get anything you desire in life:

-Donā€™t just network when you need to, continuously do so because itā€™s the best investment in your future and in someone elseā€™s. Get to know the person overtime, not just their role. Itā€™s not a transaction. A network is an insurance policy money cannot buy.

-Never burn bridges with anyone. The world is a small place and you never know who youā€™ll need help from later on

-Never make assumptions or judge someone based on where they are today. Someoneā€™s past doesnā€™t indicate their future

-Optimize and specify your resume. Donā€™t bother sending it if it isnā€™t tailored for the role or not personalizedĀ 

-Always send a thank you note or get creative such as sending a box of donuts for a lasting impression even if you DIDNā€™T get the position. Thereā€™s always another chance.Ā 

-Things happen for you not to you. In hindsight that rejection couldā€™ve been the best thing for you to land somewhere better

-Preparation + opportunity = success

-What separates leaders isnā€™t IQ, test scores, GPA, etc., itā€™s emotional intelligence. Anyone can learn anything. Character counts.

-What you put in is what you get out out of everything.Ā 

-Shortcuts and not paying attention to details will slow you down and drastically compoundĀ 

-Master non-verbal communication. Listening isnā€™t about obtaining as much info as possible, itā€™s building a connection with others.Ā 

-Your reputation is everything. Everything

-Rejection is more common than success. Learn as much as you can, move on, try not to tie emotions to decisions, and never take it personally.Ā 

-Following the crowd in many circumstances is illogical. Follow what works best for you.Ā 

-The best tool in your toolbox is curiosity. Learning never stops beyond the classroom.

-If you really want something, there is always a way. If you donā€™t want it, you will make excuses. If thereā€™s a will, thereā€™s a way.

-Donā€™t make the highs too high or the lows too low. Balance and moderation are key.

-Hard choices = easy life, easy choices = hard life.